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I think maybe if i put more Links, in my posts, and made them more interactive, they might be more intresting.
what do you think?
ok maybe thats going overboard.
here is another list (in no particular order)
Things I regret
-Not being more responsable with my money during college
-Not saving sex for marriage, or even love for that matter
-Not having the conviction to follow my dreams
-Not having the conviction to share my faith
-not having the strength to be a better person
-not completeing college in a more timely matter
-going to college before i knew what i wanted to do in life
-giving up on the girl of my dreams after she told me she wasn't intrested
-not being able to be myself around said girl
-being too worried about what other people think
-being too shy
-never learning to dance (girls love a guy that can dance!)
-quiting taekwondo in highschool, also baseball, and to a lesser extent hockey
What i'm going to do about it
-be responsable with my money now
-from now on, no sex till marriage!
-I'm following my dreams step #1) trip to europe by myself
step #2) racing school
step #3) pilots liscence
step #4) back to school... :S
-maybe if i pray more i'll get that conviction back
-make an effort to do nice things even though it doesn't always feel good
-when i go back to school... lookout timely manner, here i come!
-I'm waiting until i've got my dreams figured, before i go back to school
-as for the girl, i guess i'll just have to wait ? i don't know
-well if i can hopefully stop worrying about what other people think, and being shy then maybe i'll be able to be myself around that girl... this is a tricky one
-I might... maybe... learn to dance.... maybe
-I'm going to start exersizing!
New Years Resolution
be less critical of other people, and worry less.
what do you think?
ok maybe thats going overboard.
here is another list (in no particular order)
Things I regret
-Not being more responsable with my money during college
-Not saving sex for marriage, or even love for that matter
-Not having the conviction to follow my dreams
-Not having the conviction to share my faith
-not having the strength to be a better person
-not completeing college in a more timely matter
-going to college before i knew what i wanted to do in life
-giving up on the girl of my dreams after she told me she wasn't intrested
-not being able to be myself around said girl
-being too worried about what other people think
-being too shy
-never learning to dance (girls love a guy that can dance!)
-quiting taekwondo in highschool, also baseball, and to a lesser extent hockey
What i'm going to do about it
-be responsable with my money now
-from now on, no sex till marriage!
-I'm following my dreams step #1) trip to europe by myself
step #2) racing school
step #3) pilots liscence
step #4) back to school... :S
-maybe if i pray more i'll get that conviction back
-make an effort to do nice things even though it doesn't always feel good
-when i go back to school... lookout timely manner, here i come!
-I'm waiting until i've got my dreams figured, before i go back to school
-as for the girl, i guess i'll just have to wait ? i don't know
-well if i can hopefully stop worrying about what other people think, and being shy then maybe i'll be able to be myself around that girl... this is a tricky one
-I might... maybe... learn to dance.... maybe
-I'm going to start exersizing!
New Years Resolution
be less critical of other people, and worry less.
posted by Davey Jones at
7:54 pm
7 Comments:
Wow, that's quite the long list! I don't think I could be half as ambitious. Perhaps that's my problem... oh well.
I kinda wish I could dance too — for the same reason. I almost took salsa lessons last year, but the whole arrangement didn't work out with the friend I was going to go with.
And as for not being yourself around a girl, I know I do that all the time too. I just get so nervous and afraid I'm going to blow it that I'm extremely self-conscious and nothing I say or do comes off as natural. I either scare her off or don't let on that I'm interested. I've even been known to do both at once! Oy vey.
*LOL* dancing is totally not about knowing the steps. I *hate* when guys know the steps, then I feel like an idiot.
Why do you not act normal in front of girls? That's weird, but I guess I understand? Maybe you just need more friends that are girls?
PS, if that girl wasn't interested, you need to just be her friend and show her who you really are.
I really hope you go to racing school. That would be super exciting.
And I didn't realize you were shy?
Also, what's the fun in going to Europe by yourself? It's not about bravery is it? What kind of fun will you have? Bring friends, mixed company or not, and Jenna recommends Croatia.
its only one or two specific girls that i am shy and don't act normal around.
and i've already went to europe by myself.. made lots of friends enjoyed the experience. I'd like to go back and see my friends again, and see the parts of europe i missed. Plus half the reason for me wanting to go is to Get away from it all.
as for dancing... its not that i don't know the steps... its that i don't know anythign at all. ever. about dancing. It is foreign to me, just as ovaries are foreign to my biology. Fortunatly dancing is something you can learn, unlike ovaries. not that i would want to learn ovaries if i could... yuck!
oh and thub, i challenge you to make a similar list ;)
...i don't want you to learn ovaries either...eww
Why do you regret anything at all?
I dont understand regrets.
These things happened, they shaped you. You made those choices. Why regret them? I can undertand not liking them, but don't 'regret' them, simply act on changing those things from here on forward.
To regret means you would redo it if you were given the chance. I dont think you should redo your life, it would make you someone else. I like you as you are, flaws and all.
well i am not you, and if i didn't regret them, then i wouldn't learn from them. that is to say, if i dont regret them, what is to stop me from doing them again? if there was nothing wrong with the original action, then why would i refrain from it a second, third, or millionth time?
as far as i know its impossible to go back and change what i did, but if i could have a chance to live my life according to what i know now i probably would take that chance, afterall, itwould at least save me alot of student loans. unless provided that i couldn't go back with the knowledge i now have, because if i couldnt' then i would invariably make those mistakes again, seeing as i am me and i made them.
I'm not ashamed of me, but i don't think there is anythign wrong with having regrets. if we don't regret anything we are doomed to live our lives in the same cycle of mistakes. which is fine if you like those mistakes i guess, but i don't. :)
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